Are you wondering if your lover will leave you and go back to their ex, because their prior family is first and will always be more magnetic than you?
Despite being assured by your partner that ‘there is nothing there any more” you hear statements that he or she misses Sunday family brunch or hiking in the woods with the dog.
Have you met the love of your life, but feel uneasy because your partner is divorced?
Do you wonder whether their history is intruding on your new and exciting relationship?
But the real question is, is dating a recently divorced man safe?
On the other hand, if you’re like me and just looking for variety and spice, then you need to approach the entire meet/greet/play from a completely different angle. OK, I might take some flack here for being apparently misogynistic in this regard though again, I repeat that being clear on your end goal is important. It might improve your chances of getting laid, but it won’t help your karma much. Think of this strategy as airbrushing your best features.
It makes your heart fall into your boots, and you wonder if you can ever make up for it.
If you imagine that despite being divorced, your date’s previous relationship is still alive and kicking because, then you hand over power to a relationship that didn’t work and broke up.
That is the equivalent of undoing the divorce and rekindling the marriage!
You sabotage your chances of succeeding, because you are afraid that you can’t replace the past.